Stop Dancing With The Enemy

(available on amazon.com and Barnes & Noble)

Mari’s book was recently featured  at the Festival of Storytellers, Chapter Five in January 2024.
  • Are you tired of limitations and fears?
  • Are you feeling unloved?
  • Do you question your worth and value?
  • Do you desire freedom or courage?
  • Would you like to know the depth and width of God’s love?
  • Do you desire to be set free from the past?
  • Do you lack self-confidence?
  • Are you trapped by shame and guilt?
  • Do you feel bound?
  • Imprisoned?
  • Limited? 
  • Stuck?
  • Hopeless?
  • Have you answered “YES” to any of these questions? Then this book is for you!

This book will help you:

  • Gain insight as to the source of your limitations 
  • Gain freedom over insecurity
  • Overcome past abuse
  • Learn the powerful healing truth of God’s love.
  • Develop more confidence
  • Defeat shame, guilt, and fear
  • Gain confidence
  • Discover your true worth and value

Why did I write this book?

  • To help my clients further than 1:1 counseling sessions
  • I took my healing , my pain, struggles, lessons learned, I was in so much pain, depression, and darkness
  • The four main dances, these were common in myself and my clients. If you are like us, then you probably are dancing with the deceiver through some or all of these dances.
    • Dance of Security: Overcoming Insecurity. Insecurity is a feeling of uncertainty, lack of confidence, or anxiety about yourself. Full of doubts about yourself. Feelings like everyone is judging them condemning them.
    • Dance of Righteousness: Overcoming Shame  Feeling “I am bad”, “There’s something wrong with me,” Awareness that you are flawed, dirty or unclean. It comes from fear of unworthiness or unlovable.
    • Dance of Power: Overcoming Powerless  It is the power to make choices, have needs met, have an opinion, disagree, be wrong, or be right.
    • Dance of Identity: Overcoming Mistaken Identity . It answers Who am I? Where do I belong? What is my value?